Wednesday, August 13, 2008

Life Lessons Learned on the Back of a Harley

I grew up begging my dad to take me for a spin on the back of his old Harley. Warm Michigan summer nights were filled with a loud rumbling engine and me screaming in my dad's ear to "go faster." It was only fitting that I ended up marrying a guy who always dreamed of owning a Harley...

Shortly after Eric and I started dating, he made an offer on a 1994 Heritage Softail, and have been coming up with excuses to go somewhere "for a ride" ever since (minus the months from about November - March of course). It wasn't until this past weekend, however, that we finally took a real bona-fide "bike trip." We stayed over night in Ludinton, and spent most of a Saturday morning wandering around a little town called Pentwater. From there we casually meandered our way south, by way of back roads--some of which took us through large sunflower fields and others only a couple hundred feet from Lake Michigan. The scenery was amazing, the company (Eric's parents were with us on their bike) was awesome, and I didn't think about anything but that very single moment in time.

There is something all together freeing about being on a motorcycle, in the middle of nowhere, with no schedule. And, when you see other people on bikes, you give the biker wave, or as I like to call it the "Harley Hi." It doesn't matter who you are, where you're from, what political party you identify with, or what your religion is--if you pass another motorcycle you wave. Not a big old, "hi how are ya" wave though. It is a low, suddle two to three fingered hand nod. So as I sat on the back of our old bike, with nothing else to think about, I pondered what it was about that fine piece of machinery that brought us all together. It intrigued me that we have a hard time saying hi to people we know in our everyday lives, but go out of our way to wave to people we don't know and most likely never will, going 60 miles an hour. Perhaps a life lesson waiting to be learned...

Stay tuned for our first almost cross country trip (hopefully to the East Coast and back)... With all that free time to myself, I am sure I will come up with something else to write about....

Monday, August 04, 2008

50 Years

I spent this past weekend celebrating my Grandparents' 50th Wedding Anniversary at a Fabulous Fifties themed party. It was an amazing event, filled with amazing people. I always knew my grandparents were well-liked, but the 115 people in attendance to witness them renew their vows solidified it for me. They are so loved... 50 plus years together and you would think they are still dating the way they look at each other... They have the kind of love we all hope for...
The picture here to the left is not from Time Magazine, circa 1955. It is my grandparents...

To see pictures from the event, click here:

http://picasaweb.google.com/thedeboers/GrandmaAndGrandpaS50thAnniversaryParty

To see the slide show Eric and I made for the event, view it on YouTube at:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wCZvSki3MlM